What do men really want in a woman? Well, the verdict is in and ready to be discussed. In a recent focus group, I met with men between the ages of 30 to 40 years of age. These men stated that they were looking for someone they call a “Real Woman.” Ms. Real Woman is smart, can engage in various intellectual conversations, listens, cares about her significant other, and most of all, she acts like a woman.
Men stress the
importance of relationships being give and take and their need of being treated
like a king. Men are willing to give
to the relationship; however giving has to be reciprocated from the woman. A close friend of mine once told me that “Women
want to be treated like queens; however in the same instance, they have to be
willing to treat their boyfriends or husbands like kings. It’s only fair.” Men definitely want equality in the
relationship and at the same time the opportunity to take his place as being
the protector of the family. They
believe that each sex plays a vital role in the family, whether it is being a protector
or the rock of the family.
Finding Ms. Right for
men has not been easy because they face the same struggles that women face when
looking for Mr. Right. One
individual told me that “I don’t care about my mate being pretty; I care more
about her inner beauty, intelligence, and our connection.” Men also stressed that there’s no one person
that was made for them. They stated that
if a woman has some of the qualities they want, they are willing to put more
interest in her by helping her develop various skills to make her Mrs. Wife.
Men want the same
things in life that women want, such as the American Dream. The American Dream consists of having a
family, home, job, and other necessities to make life much better. One friend told me that “No one wants to be
alone for the rest of his or her life.
Everyone generally arrives at a stage in life when they need and or want
to have a partner.” I was also told that
men and women are constantly looking toward the future and want various
pleasures in life that consists of: Marriage, children, and a stable household.
In conclusion, men want women to listen, be patient,
relinquish some of the power and control, and have intellectual
conversations. Is that too much to ask
for? Not at all. Do you agree?
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